No one said you squabble with your spouse, only that some of us you are speaking to don’t squabble with ours. There is no “squabbling” going on in our homes for you us or anyone else to live with, if you were in our homes or not. No points to prove one way or the other.
That said, there was a time when I wouldn’t have gotten near this forum with a ten foot pole. I didn’t think anyone really read it or took it seriously. But then out in the community I started hearing people mouthing some pretty dangerous authoritarian political babble and saying they read it here where they had “free speech.” There are people who can’t or don’t want to get out and about. Some of them think what people say here is a conversation they can learn from. I just figured it was time to let them contemplate another point of view, one not so dark. It’s way too easy to get sucked into the darkness these days.