Most people I know, young and old, are indeed pursuing and displaying who they were created to be and are confused as to why some others don’t want them to display that blessed identity. If they weren’t doing that it would be so much simpler for them, easier on them, to fit in and do what they are told by the folks questioning their judgement. They accept how wonderfully they were made and the amazing talents and abilities they have, and wonder why you don’t, too. Maybe it’s just poor judgement? I’d hate to think it was a character flaw in the judgemental.